Hi Aidan,
First of all I must say that I do not know whether you might help me with this.
I was into a relationship for over 5 years, with a man that had not been divorce. In time our relationship has changed so much and now I can hardly cope with the stress, angst and I cant stop calling or texting him.
The problem is that he consented to be with me, and after 5 years he decided to leave for the fact that he considered that I was the one that I have taken him from his family.
I lost my confidence, and I previously explained to him the consecvences of our relationship and he was presumed to assume them all.
Right now we split, but he is the one telling me it was all my faults, he is accusing me for things that I didnt cause him and that is making me feel bad, depressed.
I must say that he is very unstable person and during our relationship he was dating and flirting around, now he is sending me pictures with his actual girlfriend(which is making me asking myself whether Im pretty, or inteligent, or whatever).
So what your advise would be?